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September 20, 2007

Words impact our lives and have more power than we can imagine. Words create the core of our communication, personal expression and are powerful enough to manipulate our reality and existence. Think I’m speaking “out of context?” Then, why at age 50 are you still allowing the critical words spoken to you by an angry parent at age 10 to control your life today? Words create an image or perception of ourselves or what we believe others perceive us to be and have an energy that either increases or diminishes our self worth and confidence. Words are power, and yet we are often careless with what we allow to roll off our tongues during everyday conversation. How many of us really “think before we speak?”

Here’s an example. Right now, “try” to stop reading this message. You either stopped reading or you continued to read, but you did not “try” to stop reading. Webster’s definition of the word “try” reads, “to make an attempt.” The word “try” keeps us in process rather than takes us to completion. Yet most of us habitually make daily use of the word “try.” “Try” is a word that tears us down because it traps our energy in process mode rather than free our energy in expressive mode. When you say, “I am “trying” to accomplish something,” you are really saying, “I am making an attempt but not really doing it.” If you say, “I am trying to change a bad habit,” you are really saying “I am making an attempt but getting nowhere.”

Here’s another example. The word “decision” means, “to cut, as if with a knife.” Its root is related to the words suicide, insecticide, pesticide, and homicide. All words related to death. It’s no wonder we often feel stuck when we are in the position of making a “decision.” Unconsciously we are saying: “If I take one option the other option will die. What if my decision is a mistake and there’s no turning back?” By replacing the word “try” with the word “choice,” we change the power of our options. The word “choice” means, ”making a selection, the opportunity or power of choosing” To live in the power of choice frees and expands our energy. The word choice builds up life creates options.

Just think how much we drain our precious life’s energy when we say, “I am “trying” to make a “decision!” We become exhausted, frustrated and often times give up all together. I say, “stop trying!” and never make another “decision” in your life!” Use the power of your words to affirm the choices you claim for your life.

Here are a few other words worth rethinking:
When you say “but” you negate all the words preceding it.
(I like you but…)
The word “just” minimizes the words following.
(I just want to say …”)
The word “remember,” affirms, the words “don’t forget” assign judgment
(Remember to pick me up after school.)

What’s in a word? The energy of your life! Empower yourself to change your life by changing your vocabulary! Think about it!

About the author:
Sharon Marquart
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September 20, 2007

Developing intuition starts by realizing you have it already. If you"ve ever had a hunch about something, that was intuition. Intuition is just your mind using more than what you are consciously aware of. But can you trust your intuition? How do you improve it?

Developing Intuition In Three Steps

1. Recognize it and encourage it.

2. Study it to make it more trustworthy.

3. Give it good information to work with.

Gary Kasparov will admit that a computer can calculate chess positions many moves further ahead than he can. Yet he still beats the best computers out there because of his intuitive grasp of the game. His experience allows him to combine analysis with a "sense" of which move is best. Try to find areas in your own life where you intuitively operate.

Of course, intuition is also a warning device. Both my wife and I felt we shoudn"t get on that bus in Ecuador. This is no psychic power. Crowded busses are prime locations for pickpockets. A drunk man was bumping into people repeatedly. We didn"t consciously pay attention, but these things registered in our minds, warning us. We felt "something isn"t right here." When we ignored our intuition, I was robbed.

When I bought a conversion van, I saw them all over. Maybe you"ve had a similar experience. Looking for and recognizing a thing trains your mind to find more of it. The same process will happen if you watch for your intuition - you"ll start to see more of it.

Unfortunately, a strong hunch can be for irrelevant reasons too. If you were hit by a yellow taxi as a child, you might have "intuitive" hunches not to get into yellow taxis for the rest of your life. So even learning to recognize your intuition and encourage it may leave you wondering when to trust it.

Study Your Intuition

Start questioning your hunches. If we had asked why we felt bad about that bus, it may have occurred to us, "Oh yeah, crowded busses are a bad idea - we know that." Study your strong feeling about that taxi, and you might say, "Oh, it"s just my fear of yellow taxis." Get in the habit of paying attentionto and studying your intuitive feelings.

Where does your intuition work best? If you"re always right about your intuitive stock picks, give a little credence to them. On the other hand, if your hunches about people are usually wrong, don"t follow them. Just pay attention more, and you"ll be developing intuition about your intuition.

Start With Good Information

Your skill, knowledge and experience determine the potential effectiveness of your intuition. No weak chess player will never intuitively beat that computer, like Kasparov can. Learn enough about a subject, before expecting good hunches about it - or before trusting the hunches. Work in the area you want more intuition in. When enough information is in your mind, it will go to work for you with or without your conscious participation, so feed it well.

Recognize your intuition and you"ll have hunches and ideas more often. Study it and you"ll learn when to trust it. Give it good information and you"ll be repaid with good hunches and ideas. This is the simple formula for developing intuition.

About the author:
Steve Gillman has been studying brainpower enhancement, creative problem solving, and related topics for years. Subscribe to his free Creative Problem Solving Course, 

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