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How to Trust the Universe for your life

In this life we are often confronted with many questions usually in regards to our future. We are never really secure in our thinking. Modern times have revealed to us that the security of a job is not really a security any more. We live in a time where the world is in rapid change. Each morning when we wake nothing we hear on the news is really going to surprise us; we are prepared for the worst in a changing world. Our humanity is now global and having contacts all over the world is very easy with all of our communication devices. With so much change it is easy to be afraid for the future. Without a job will I become homeless and lose everything? Is it my career that keeps me alive and if someone takes it from me will I not survive?

The hardest part of this life for us to accept that there is a guiding force that is in control of everything. One of the mysteries of Source (God) is that there is a paradox in this life. There is freewill that all human beings possess and at the same time everything is in control by a living energy. How can both be in control? Well this is the mystery of spirit; we are not really in control but our choices are important. This is why many people feel that life is hard; they are fighting against what is meant to be. So what to do? The answer starts with trusting that there is a loving Source that cares for you. This is one of the hardest parts for many people. This is the beginning of a wonderful ride in a spiritual journey. The closer to this knowing that is revealed to you the more control you will have over your life.

HERE IS THE MYSTERY! The closer to the loving source that you are the more you let go…then the more you receive control. Part 2 of this post will expand on this revelation of releasing control to obtain control. The key to remember is that there is a loving Source that is always there for you and always near when you release

Hello to all our readers and a happy New Year. We have been very busy for the last 2 months shooting our new feature film " Soul-less".

We will be back to our regular blog post helping to eliminate lonliness and improving your dating life in a couple of days. Our self improvement blog was a big success in helping others and we will try to help even more people in the new year. I would like to thank all the people who helped spread this blog.We do not do this blog for profit but only to help others. The Letstry blog is only successful due to our readers so the biggest thanks is to all our readers. Our new post will be up in a day or two. Thanks, Scott

Why is it harder to meet a mate, as I became an adult?

People often say to me that it got a lot more difficult to meet a mate, as they got older. And when I say older I mean 25 and older usually. What happened after High School or college is a common question that I am asked. Well, the question should be what happened to YOU. You were not prepared for what was waiting for you after you left school. College is a time of openness that allows some of the best hearts and souls of students. They are the many open-heart dreamers who feel that anything is possible. They are right but their dream is soon to expire. These like-minded people have a very easy time connecting in their youth. It is a time of exploration and possibility. At times like these the possibilities seem endless and the world is their oyster.

So what happens that changes all of this. Well, what is waiting there is a structure that is in place known as “The real world”. Spiritually it is not the real “Real world” but the thoughts of those college students and other “Dreamers” will be crushed in a very short time by a system that subconsciously will do this. These are some of the problems that are plaguing the dating world today. The structure is one of limitations not expansion. You must learn how to expand. This is something that is very difficult to learn unless someone teaches you. The issue is much too long to go into a blog but we will touch on it. You are living in a world where there have been put on you many limitations that will affect your dating life. Is it any wonder that there are so many dating services out today? There are so many dating services that it is almost a joke. The problem is not the dating service. I do feel that everyone should try a dating service at least once. The problem is most people have not been taught how to win at dating. Signing up for a dating service may be good but for most people it is like a man arriving on a first date with no clothes on to meet a woman. It will probably be the last time you see that person.

You were not prepared and this is why a dating service will not help most. This is why we created this blog, it is to help people show up prepared when you meet the right person. Our self-help Ebook “How to attract anyone you want” will help you win at dating and improve your life.

But how can you win at dating when you live in a world structure that actually creates misunderstanding between men and women. After you leave school you will be indoctrinated into a world that will actually help create your brain to think along the lines “They” want. You and your potential mate will stare at each other across the room and nothing will ever grow out this chance encounter. It will be another missed opportunity. It is not your fault. It is the structure that we live in. So yes it is different meeting a potential mate than when you were younger.

Can these limiting structures be broken? Yes they can but you must get at the root cause. Many do not realize it but the media is one of the largest influencers on your dating life. Yes, It is true; the media has consciously and unconsciously affect your change to get a mate. We are an over stimulated, over saturated, over informed people. You have been trained to think in ways that will stop your growth and the ability to meeting new people. If you think this is not a problem why is online dating sites a BILLION dollar business. Good people will always have to go back to the dating sites because the have been structurally conditioned in a limiting way, much will not come of your dating membership until you are aligned with Source. Welcome to the so-called real world.

Yes you have a CHOICE!

Science has “discovered” a galaxy that they never new existed; this massive amount of area has surprised even the most learned scientist. It is amazing that the more we learn the more realize how much we do not know. The Universe (GOD) is amazing. This little creation called humans has so little knowledge how things work. Earth is a tiny drop of water in an million oceans. With all we humans have found we are still lost. The Universe unveils a little bit each time that amazes and confuses us. Even on Earth, this small dot on a million maps something more amazing did happen. YOU…that is right you are a special creation from the creator. Unfortunately we have lost that fact that each breath we take is incredibly special.

 Often in this world you are subconsciously and often consciously led to believe that decisions or not up to you.

  Unfortunately the thought of limited finances are what others use to make you believe you are powerless. We are taught that there is not enough so stay put. It is a mentality of lack that is reinforced from the time we are teenagers. Most people are taught that they cannot afford many of the dreams that they have. This is one of the biggest misconceptions that people have. What you must realize is that you do have a choice on every aspect of your life. The choice is yours where you live, work and who you socialize with. We have been taught that the choice is finances not yours. And the amazing thing is that it takes very little effort except a shift in your perception of a situation to see that the choice is your regardless of  your current finances.

 Most people can live anywhere they want to. I know this is an amazingly large statement but it is true. If someone else is living in that area so can you. Many people feel that they live where they can afford but this is not true. We choose to live where we live. This is the key and is the most difficult part for most people. We are taught to look at a situation from a financial perspective first then narrowing our choices down to what you are able to afford. This is not how things happen or are created. Now this is the right way, first comes the “IDEA” or the desire then comes the circumstances. If you look at the circumstances first you will never achieve the goal. No great goal was ever achieved by focusing on the circumstances; the focus must be on what you want. If it is the circumstances you see, this will paralyze you into fearfully thinking you have no power.

The choice is really yours. If you really want to live in the USA or Europe or Australia you will! This is not magic but it is based on energy from Source working through you for your growth. Actually most people never move far from where they are born. It is all a choice due to being paralyzed by the constant inner debate of “How” it is going to happen. Did the wonderful creator bring you into being to be controlled by Banks telling you where you can live, doctors telling you what you can do physically? Or the boss telling you what days you can see your family. Were you brought forth into creation from the wonderful ever-growing Universe only to be at the mercy of someone “maybe” giving you permission to see your family on Christmas? Or maybe you will be forced to work again this Christmas.

There is nothing wrong with working. Working is good. But if you are not obtaining more freedom from your job each year then you are not growing. Nothing is sadder than a 60-year-old man asking his boss if he can spend a day with his family. Our fears of not having money allowed us to mentality stop our growth. First pick where you want to live,Not where you can afford. Be spirit led and you will achieve it!This subject is too long for a blog post and I will go into specific details in the Ebook.

We must stop being ruled by our circumstances if we are to make any progress. Please do not wait for circumstances to change before there is any change or growth. It does not work that way. The Universe (GOD) is waiting on your first move and then life begins to change. It will be a little like a roller coaster ride. There will be some ups, downs, curves, and highs, lows and of course some fear. The beauty of this is that you will be really living through the ride not living fearfully waiting for your finances to change. Yes. The choice is truly yours…if you can believe it.