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That’s Life… Wrong!!

I was in a financial institute doing some very basic everyday business matters as I spoke to the cashier she seemed very overwhelmed. She informed me that everyday was like this; she said it is always busy and she is always overworked. She said it is a constant flow of people everyday and the work is very mind numbing. She had a look of wanting to give up. She was stuck. But as bad as it was it was her next statement that really opened my eyes. She said,” This is LIFE”. What a powerful statement that she made. Many people do not say this statement but they are living it.

This is Life…at times we just speak without really knowing what we are saying but what we are saying is subconsciously what we believe. We are all given 70 years (some more some less in flesh) to do what the Universe (God) created us to do. If in this great Universe which is so large that Earth appears smaller than a grain of salt cut in half thousand’s of times, and all you can make of this incredible creation (You) is a line of customers standing in front of you, then something is wrong. What of the new Universe science just were shocked to discover just last month. Truly Earth is less than a drop in the ocean when we talk of size of all there is.

Now, the love of the Universe has brought you forward into flesh and spirit. Something is wrong if your life is the slavery she describes is life. There is nothing wrong with customer service actually it is rewarding work but something has gone wrong if you call this life.

What happened to this woman is common. She is doing the same task at work everyday and it is causing her to not experience any growth. And the problem is deeper for this woman because she feels that this is it the best that it gets. This is as good as it gets in her world and she has concluded, “This is life”. This is not life; this is what she has told herself that her life will be and it will not change. She has become a slave to the paycheck. Sacrificing growth and true abundance life for a life of the paycheck struggle. How we have been brainwashed into thinking that our life consist of working hard to survive and then die. There are some who have broken the bondage of this thinking.  for a life of struggle.

How we have been brainwashed into thinking that our life consist of working hard to survive and then die. There are some who have broken the bondage of this thinking. Yes you can have a job and still change this way of thinking and that is just the first step. Because when people become awaken to who they truly are they usually end up with so much growth that they end up in a new job or a new business or at times a period of nothingness that leads to huge growth after the period of nothingness but awakened.

The Universe so loves that it is actually waiting on you to awaken! And when you align with it get ready for the ride of your life. This cashier is a wonderful person that unfortunately is wasting her 70 years in a mindset of thinking that she is a slave. If you are doing anything you do not want to do you are a slave to it. We are at times called to do this for our betterment and our growth. Every spiritually person has experienced a time in no movement (maybe for you a unsatisfying job). This is actually good because the spiritual person knows it is only temporary and will lead to a bigger growth factor. Everyone can feel it, it is a forgone conclusion .The Boss knows you will be flying high, your co-workers know it, all are watching this wonderful show that is your life…now this is life!

Why you will probably be cheated on part 2

When we left off in part 1 We were discussing why women cheat. Please see part 1 on the sidebar. I mentioned in part 1 that women usually do not feel a tremendous amount of guilt after cheating if any at all. Most of the women surveyed stated that they felt no regrets about cheating in their relationships. From my own experiences speaking with women I found this to be true. In this post we will discuss why women often adopt this attitude after the deed is done. The key word is “justification”. Usually there is a reaching out that the women feels she has done by sending out signals to her mate that he may or may not have caught. We must understand that men and women think different and this is good. This creates the balance that makes the union of the two great. When the signals are missed or ignored though it can lead to disaster, in our case here to cheating. The thinking differences of men and women usually lead to different reasons for cheating. Men by the overwhelming majority usually cheat due to the temptation of another woman they are attracted to. This can of course also happen with women but the vast majority of women spoken with reveal a different answer.

Women usually express  they have been sending signals that they wer dissatisfied and that their mates did nothing to address the concerns. Think of it as a constant small pain in the body that has not been address for years…as time goes by this pain may increase. Some years later a doctor may identify a problem that is too late for them to try to repair. Now, the body may feel it has been sending signals for a long time but it was not addressed. The body does not regret taking on the illness but it may be sorry the warning signals were not caught. This is the best way to describe that attitude of the cheating woman. Many times women after cheating on their mate have said ” I have been telling you for years that there is a problem” This is the root cause of the woman usually feeling no regret, it is usually the fact that there is a feeling of justification. And as we know guilt and justification do not go well together, it is one or the other.

And it gets worst … a man may be doing nothing wrong and still be cheated on! Women are deep thinker, they are usually very heart-centered, this is where the deep thoughts live and a man seldom knows his woman enough to know these secret heart thoughts. They are wondering very often is this the right man for me. This can be even after many years of being together or it could be a new relationship. These deep heart questions can lead to a woman exploring a new mate. This is why many women say that after sleeping with a new man they found out how much they love their mate. In other words cheating showed me that I really do love you. And their mate may have been doing nothing wrong. It is just the doubt in the woman’s heart that caused this. This is an issue of the heart and many  men get caught in the middle.  So, what do we do? Well the signs of dissatisfaction are different from heart doubt that a woman experiences and a man must know his women to know these signs. Most men will never get this right; this is the reason for the larger number of women cheating with little regret.

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Until next post, take care