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steps:

1. Seduce her mind first. You must get in her head and have her thinking about you. You must make her feel comfortable with you.
2. Listen and talk to her. Women love to talk. They feel closer to you if you listen and remember what she talked about. In a way, words are a form of intercourse for a woman because it's the only thing they have with which to establish trust with you. A woman will tell you exactly how and when she wants to be seduced if you just shut up and listen to her -- find out her likes and dislikes, her needs and desires, whatever it takes. Laugh with her and agree with her when you can.
3. Take things slowly. Show her that you're patient; your ability to resist her will make her wonder if you're really interested, and will motivate her to show you that she's worth being interested in.
4. Kiss with your eyes first. Women need to feel a connection with you. You begin this connection through your words and then your eyes. If you can keep her eyes on yours, and hypnotize her with your words, you are halfway there.
5. Increase the physical intimacy. You have to be careful with this one. Don't be eager or aggressive. Begin touching a woman with simple hugs, pats on the back, etc. Then gradually increase it by bringing her in closer...kiss with your eyes. Then move on to simple kisses (pecks). Again, take it slow.
6. Talk about sex or sexy things. At some point, begin to talk about sex...not between the two of you, but general experiences you've had. Once you inject the topic of sex, it will be on their mind when they think about you. With women, it's all about familiarity and safety. Talking about the act makes them more comfortable with the act.
7. Tell a woman you want her. Pick the right time, but be clear that you want her -- not in a cheesy way ("I want you, baby,") but in a tender way. She needs to know you want a time and place for the act. Gauge her reaction. If she is ready, then plan on setting up the situation for it to happen.
8. When it's the right time, always ask for permission ("Are you okay, darling?") and be ready to back off at any time if she is not ready.
9. Respect a woman at all times. She is not a piece of meat but a human being with feelings. If you are out to "get some," then you are not seducing a woman; you are merely an animal in heat.
10. Find a good form of interaction, one that works best for you. If you need time to think about what you're going to say, maybe email or IM will work best for you, at least to start.

Hints:

• Always listen.
• Talk to her frequently. The best approach is email. It gives you direct access to her head because you can be as intimate as you want and she can mull your words while you are not around.
• Kiss with your eyes -- establish that eye to eye contact and you will begin the intimacy process.
• This method works with men too except they don't like to talk as much.
• Don't be creepy -- staring at the wrong times, seeming overly eager, or airing out your relationship past on the first date are all examples of the wrong way to seduce a woman. Relax, take it slow and be yourself (unless, of course, you are creepy).
• Build a "buzz" around yourself -- Women put a lot of stock in what their friends think of prospective suitors. If you want to date a particular girl, demonstrate your good qualities (e.g., sense of humor, good taste, charitable nature) around her friends.
• Think before you speak.
• Good hygiene is a must.
• Maintain a good diet and exercise to maintain an attractive physique.
• When a woman says "No" she means it
• Never bring up your ex. It is an instant turn off to women because they will think you are not over them.

Avoid:

• Always use protection.
• Never, ever have sex if a woman does not want to. Don't pressure her to do anything she doesn't want to do. Never hit a woman.
• Don't become too caught up in saying the right thing and all that...the most important thing is to socialize with girls. If you enjoy yourself, the rest should just follow...so don't be too uptight.

steps:

1. You have to feel seductive. Before you can succeed in seduction you have to be confident, and secure within yourself.

2. Think sexy.

3. Exude confidence - and one way is to dress in what makes you feel attractive and confident.

1. Look in a mirror facing sideways when you are doing this. Stand up tall. Then tip your hips forward until your back/hips/butt/stomach area make an 's.' Your butt will be jutting out a little, but that's OK! Next, tip your chin slightly down, but only slightly! You do not want to go so far as to create a double chin. With your chin slightly down, look upwards; imagine looking up at someone through your eyelashes. Don't go to extremes though, you do not want to look evil. When you smile, push your lips out a little, slightly pucker them. Next, position your legs to be 'turned in' slightly. This is just rotating the legs from the hip socket in facing each other. Though, again, slightly! You don't want to force it, you will look like a duck! Keep your shoulders slightly back.

THE WALK:

1. Using The Pose step forward with one foot at a time, place one foot in front of the other. As you take a step forward, move the matching hip forward instead of side to side. As you walk your hips should be making a slight figure 8. Don't go to extremes, or you will look like Shakira with a wedgie. Try moving slowly. If you force your walk it will seem too childish. Be careful not to take stomping steps. Keep your feet as close to the ground as you can without dragging them.
2. The Look. As you look at someone, first of all: be bold. Do not be shy and look away. Look directly in his eyes. Let him see you looking at him. Stare for a good 20 seconds if you have to. Walk past him, and while not quite facing him, when you know he is looking let the side of your mouth facing him turn up slightly at the corners and look out of the corner of your eye near him, not directly at him; maybe waist level right beside him.
3. When you look directly at someone, or talking to someone, let your eyes be deep. Let your emotion burn through them. Be penetrating. When you shift your gaze, do so slightly slower than normal, with your eyelashes slowly following your gaze slightly.
   • When you speak, move your eyebrows slightly, not overly as that can seem too animated. Smile intriguingly. Let your lips linger open for a second after you finish speaking, parted just enough to notice.
4. Hair.No matter your hair type, you can make it sexy. Let your hair fall in your eyes a little, let your hair partially cover an area of your face. This adds mystery to you and let's the man wanting more. Do not let your hair hide you though!
5. Curly hairMake sure you have no frizz. After washing hair, brush through your hair. Let it dry to desired style: air or blow dry. Scrunch your hair to add glorious curl. Guys like hair with character. After hair is dry, use a hair serum, and put a dime sized amount on your fingers and run downwards through hair avoiding roots. Do not use too much, as it can make your hair look disgustingly greasy. Start with the smallest amount, you can always add more.
6. For thick hairUse a hair serum if you have frizz as mentioned above. Use a fine toothed comb and tease your roots in layers on the top of your head. To tease your hair, hold up sections of hair no more than and inch wide and under the hair comb towards the root from about and inch or two from the scalp vigorously. After you have teased to your preference, hairspray. It will not stay that way unless you do.
   • *For fine hair:
   • Follow instructions above, except tease hair all over your head. Also, try blow drying your hair upside down. Another tip: don't condition roots.
   • Make-up.
   • Your make up should not be dramatic at all. Always do a smoky eye. Despite you eye color and complexion, you can pull it off. Not all smoky eyes should be the basic black, grey, or brown. Some colors to use are: plum, olive green, navy blue, gold, silver, copper, burgundy, rosy pink, or even if you want a punk look a bright color. Use thickening mascara, Maybelline 700x's mascara has worked the best. The key to your make-up is not to paint a new you, but to allow a natural, intriguing invitation for the man to see you. Think of shadows. They add depth.
   • Keep lips looking natural.
   • Use a foundation that matches your skin tone, and make sure you blend at the jaw. Use a subtle bronzer or shimmer to set. Using a dusty rose blush, use on your cheeks, along your cheekbones. Make sure you blend it in though, make it look natural and subtle.

Perfume.

1. • Spritz your favorite perfume in the air, one spray, in front of you and walk through it. Allow some to fall in your hair. Musky scents work the best. Fruity and floral scents are alright, but make sure you aim to please him, not another girlie-girl. Although, you should be in love with your perfume because you will be the one wearing it.

1. • If you spray hardly any on, the guy will get a slight whiff, and subconsciously lean in for a stronger 'taste.'

THE CLOTHES:

1. • Take whatever style you like and wear it confidently. Although, some styles that flatter you most and grab guys attention are surprisingly not what you see in fashion magazines but are: vintage, retro, Victorian, classy, sophisticated, and womanly styles. Choose colors that flatter you. Hold up different fabrics up to your face at a fabric store and ask a friend what colors look best on you. Mimic the ones that make your eyes pop in your clothing. A hint: the color of your eyes with always look good on you. Black is a good color as well, it lets your features stand out more, it doesn't distract from you. Black also adds mystery.
   • Keep things simple. Anything too frilly or 'fruity' will turn a guy off. Do not show a lot of skin either. A low cut shirt is alright, but rather than skimpy clothing, wear tight clothing. You show what you have while still being covered and add mystery. The guy will automatically want to see more. If you show it all right away he may be satisfied right away in that moment, but what reason does he have to stick around? What more is there to see? Always keep something hidden to keep him coming for more.
   • Consider wearing pantyhose. Many women don't give hosiery a second thought, but it's a turn-on for nearly all men, and it will flatter your legs. Having him stare at your legs will give you a sense of power, too.

THE VOICE:

1. • Lower your voice slightly. A high pitched, loud voice will seem too immature. Don't talk too loud or fast. Instead, talk slowly and deliberately. Make sure though, that you don't let your voice be monotone.
   • Another tip: don't swear or cuss. If swear words are part of your daily vocabulary, they lose their severity. Do not refrain completely though, use them at appropriate times only. Only use them to add to the conversation, not to hold it together. Cussing makes you seem rough and unapproachable.

MOVEMENTS:

1. • *To catch any guy's attention:
   • - Lick your lips slowly and deliberately.
   • - When you lean over, let the smallest bit of your thong show. Do not let it show at other times. Make sure the guy catches it, and let them know it was deliberate by smiling at them. (Don't show teeth when you smile.)
   • - When you pick up things, bend over without bending your knees. Let him take a look.
   • - When you want to talk, motion him over to follow you by the 'head beckoning motion.'
   • - In extreme cases, and when things are sexual, if the situation and setting are correct, do this: while sitting on a couch, or under a table, without looking at him, lift your foot up to rub against his member. This will turn any man on. Make sure you aren't wearing shoes. Also, use good judgement while using this technique as it can backfire.

HINTS:

• 1. Perfect 'The Walk.'
  2. Perfect 'The Look.'
  3. Perfect your hair.
  4. Perfect your make-up.
  5. Perfect your wardrobe.
  6. Perfect your voice.
  7. Perfect your movements.

WARNING:

• Do not be fake.
• Do not lay everything on the table. Always reveal things slowly to him. If he knows everything, you will seem less interesting. By drawing things out, you seem to have more depth and appear more interesting. He will keep coming back trying to figure you out.
• Please, do not get overly slutty. Be sophisticated, not trashy. What distinguishes a slut from a siren is class. You can do the same actions, but make sure it's done tastefully and with the sophistication.
• Respect him. Men naturally love being respected. They love being cared for. They love their egos being fed. Do not mother him though. Just listen and sympathize with him. Ask him questions about himself. Let him talk. He will love you forever if you listen to him. He may be saying one thing, but meaning something else. Watch him, observe him. Care about him, at least to some degree.
• Don't be obsessive. Do not allow more than one call a day unless he invites it. Same goes for unanswered e-mails. A conversation is one thing, but make sure it's two-sided.
• Allow him to be independent. Always give him a sense of freedom. Men hate, and I mean hate being trapped. Even though he may be open for commitment, let him see open skies still. You are not his keeper. Let him have alone time, or time with his buddies.
• Don't suppress your values and morals. Be you.
• Intelligence is a huge turn on. Especially when you are also sexy.
• There is a fine line between being seductive and being a whore. Knowing where that line is helps.

Leonardo da Vinci was the ultimate multi-tasker: an accomplished scientist, mathematician, engineer, inventor, anatomist, painter, sculptor, architect, botanist, musician, and writer. If you want to be a Renaissance Man (or Renaissance Woman), you can learn a lot from how Leonardo da Vinci lived and thought. Based on studying the life and work of this famous polymath[1] anyone can emulate da Vinci with the following steps.

1. Curiosità. Curiosità is an "insatiably curious approach to life and unrelenting quest for continuous learning". Great minds have one characteristic in common: they continuously ask questions throughout their lives. Leonardo's endless quest for truth and beauty clearly demonstrates this. What makes great minds different is the quality of their questions. You can increase your ability to solve problems by increasing your ability to ask good questions. Like da Vinci, you should cultivate an open mind that allows you to broaden your universe and increase your ability to explore it. Here are some ways to apply Curiosità:
   
   
   • Keep a journal. Bring a journal wherever you go and use it often. Write your ideas and thoughts there. Try to write several statements a day that start with "I wonder why/how..."
   • Observe according to a theme. Choose a theme and observe things according to the theme for a day. For example, let's say you choose "communication". For the entire day, observe every type and instance of communication you come across. You can then record your observations in your journal.
   • Stream of consciousness exercise. Pick a question and write the thoughts and associations that occur to you as they are. Don't edit them. The important thing is to keep writing. This is also referred to as freewriting.
2. 

   
   Dimostrazione. Dimostrazione is "a commitment to test knowledge through experience, persistence, and a willingness to learn from mistake". Wisdom comes from experience and the principle of Dimostrazione helps you get the most out of your experience. Here are some ways to apply Dimostrazione:
   
   
   • Check your beliefs. Do you hold any beliefs that you haven't verified through experience?
   • Three points of view. First, make a strong argument against your belief. Next, take a distant view of your belief (for example, as if you live in a different culture) and review it. Finally, find friends who can give you different perspectives.
   • Analyze the advertisements that affect you. Look at the advertisements in your favorite magazine and analyze the strategy and tactics they use. Find the advertisements that affect you most and find out why.
   • Find “anti-role models” to learn from. List the names of some people whose mistakes you want to avoid. Learn from them so that you won't encounter the same pitfalls.
3. 

   
   Sensazione. Sensazione is "the continual refinement of the senses, especially sight, as the means to enliven experience". According to da Vinci, we can best practice Dimostrazione through our senses, particularly sight. That's why one of Leonardo's mottoes is saper vedere (knowing how to see) upon which he built his work in arts and science. Here are some ways to apply Sensazione:
   
   
   • Write detailed description of an experience. For instance, describe your experience of watching a sunrise in your journal.
   • Learn how to describe a smell.
   • Learn to draw.
   • Listen to different sounds around you. Learn to listen to different intensity of sounds from the softest (e.g. your breathing) to the loudest (e.g. traffic).
   • Live in the moment. Practice mindfulness.
4. Sfumato. Sfumato is "a willingness to embrace ambiguity, paradox, and uncertainty". An essential characteristic of da Vinci's genius is his ability to handle a sense of mystery. Here are two ways to apply Sfumato:
   
   
   • Befriend ambiguity. Find some situations in your past where you faced ambiguity (e.g. waiting to hear if your application for a job you wanted was successful). Describe how you felt.
   • Ask yourself questions that relate two opposites. For example, ask yourself how your happiest and saddest moments are related.
   • Practice the Socratic method. The goal with the Socratic method is to examine possibilities, and that is done by asking questions, not by giving answers. Socrates was known (and criticized) for asking questions to which he didn't have answers.[2] The key to using the Socratic method is to be humble. Don't assume that you or anyone knows anything for sure. Question every premise.
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   Arte/scienza. Arte/scienza is "the development of the balance between science and art, logic and imagination". This is thinking with the “whole brain”. Mind mapping is a powerful method that can help you combine logic and imagination in your work and life. The end result of mapping should be a web-like structure of words and ideas that are somehow related in the writer's mind.
6. 

   
   Corporalità. Corporalità is "the cultivation of grace, ambidexterity, fitness, and poise". Leonardo had amazing physical ability that complemented his genius in science and arts. Here are some ways to apply Corporalità:
   
   
   • Develop a program for physical fitness. Your program should include three things: flexibility exercises, strength training, and aerobic conditioning.
   • Develop body awareness. Study anatomy. Try yoga. Dance. Do some contact juggling. Whatever strengthens the connection between body and mind, go for it.
   • Cultivate ambidexterity. Leonardo could work with both his right and left hand and regularly switched between them. You can cultivate ambidexterity by using your nondominant hand for relatively simple tasks like brushing your teeth or eating your breakfast. Later you can use your nondominant hand for writing.
7. Connessione. Connessione is "a recognition of and appreciation for the interconnectedness of all things and phenomena". This, in other words, is systems thinking. One main source of Leonardo's creativity is his ability to form new patterns through connections and combinations of different elements. Here are some ways to apply Connessione:
   
   
   • Find ways to link things that seem unrelated. For example, you can try to find connections between a bear and the World Wide Web, or geology and the Mona Lisa (real name "La Joconde").
   • Imagine dialogues. Imagine talking with a role model to gain new perspective and insight. Or you can imagine how some role models would discuss your problem.
   • Think about how things originate. Take an object and think about what elements are involved in its creation and how.

Hint: have love for animals and nature

      be generous

      and the curiosity of a child
 

Ever wanted to make a program from scratch? Programming can be a very rewarding experience. All the great computer programmers started just like you: with no knowledge but a willingness to read, study, and practice.

procedures:

1. Decide what you would like to do with your programming knowledge. Do you want to learn how to create games, or is web development more your style?
2. Once you decide what you want to accomplish, start reading and find out what programming languages are used. For game making, it would be beneficial to learn one of the C languages. For web development, you should start with HTML and CSS and move on to whichever server-side language you require, such as Perl or PHP.
3. After deciding on your programming language, do some more research and find out what you need to test it. For example, if learning PHP, you will need to download and install a server such as Apache, as well as PHP itself. For a C language, you might have to buy a program.
4. Start reading. Start by the manual for your program, and work your way through the examples. You might try some beginner tutorials.
5. Once you feel comfortable with your language, decide what your first project will be. Pick something simple. If you're learning how to program games, try an easy game such as a number guessing game.
6. Start programming. You will probably find it difficult and have to reference the manual or tutorials quite often, but it's a start.
7. Once you finish your first project, move on to a slightly more difficult project.
8. Eventually you will have enough of a grasp of the language and its syntax, as well as the "theory" of programming, that you can complete more difficult projects.

tips:

• Don't be afraid to ask for help. Find a good, active forum with plenty of user knowledgeable with the language you've chosen, and ask any questions you need.
• If you can find a book for your language inexpensive, buy it. It's always good to have a paper reference, but pointless to only have a book since there is an abundance of help on the web.
• Stay motivated. Practice as often as you can, because the longer you go without between sessions, the more you will forget.
• If you start to get discouraged, take a break. You might find that you've "got it" when you come back. Around 15 - 30 minutes from the computer is the best.

the foreign exchange market is also known as FOREX and it's the biggest and largest financial market in the world. It has a daily average turnover(the total money value of all executed transactions in a given periof of time) of US $ 1.9 billion. WOW !

Forex is the simultaneous buying of one currency and selling of another.Currencies are traded inn pairs, for example EURO/USD(euros /us dollars), or USD/JPY(us dollars/japanese yen).so  therefore, FPOREX is TRADING !.

There are (2) reasons of buying and selling currencies.About 5% of daily turnovers is from companies and government, that buy or sell products and services in a foreign country or must convert profitsmade in foreign currencies intto their domestic currency. The other 95 % is trading for profit, or  what you call speculation. Investors frequently trade on information they believe to be superior and relevant, when in fact.It is not and is fully discounted by the market.

    On one side of each speculative stock trade is participant who beleivees he has superior information and on the other side is another particpant who believes his inforamtion is superior.

    For speculators, the best trading opportunitiesare eith the most commonly traded( and there/4 the most liquid-meaning it's cash or convertible to cash) cuurencies, called "MAJOR". Today, more than 85 5 of all daily turnovers involves trading of the Majors.

A true 24-hr market, FOREX tarding beigns each day in sydney, and moves around the globe as the business day begins in each financial centre. First to Tokyo, London and New York. Unlike any other financial market,investors can respond to currency fluctations caused b economic,social and political events at the time they occur- real time(day or night)

 next time will talk about forex quotes ?

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