Friendship And Sharing

By CD Mohatta

We are all social animals. Not many of us think about prisons. Why is prison life a punishment? Because you cannot move around and meet people. With friendship, we break the barrier that stops us sharing our life with others. During early childhood, only mother is enough. But observe the pain on the face of a child who has no friends to play with, and you will realize why friends are so important? Why does even a small child need friends? He/she can surely play with parents and enjoy life? Friends are needed because most of them are from the same age group and we relate better with people of our age group. Give it a thought.

Many of us carry a childhood friendship in our adult life. That gives us an opportunity to share memories of the childhood spent together. That's why, when we meet a old childhood friend after a long time, we love to go back to our memories. We go back to those days, when things were much better. One is also known by the friends one keeps. What does this mean? This means that people of similar taste become better friends. That is a big advantage of friendship. To share thoughts about things of common interest.

Many times, some things in our life, some incidents etc. cannot be shared with anyone but friends. A friend will understand our problem and not lecture us about mistakes. A friend will be with us and will always be for us. That is friendship. Good friends share every thing in their life including the intimate details, and one who has such friends is very lucky. To share is very important. To talk, to discuss, to exchange ideas, to smile, to laugh and to cry together, we need friends. If we have good friends, we should always take care of the friendship and make the bond stronger. A friendship lost is a very big loss. We cannot go back to childhood days and make friends again. Value friends, and value the friendship as a treasure.

Connect with friends with love and care. Send them some ecards from time to time to share your care. Build and share your friendship. Treasure it.

About the Author: C.D.Mohatta is a content writer for ecards, screensavers and wallpapers for http://www.valentinesday-cards.com , http://www.inspirationecards.com , http://www.ecarduniverse.com etc.

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Feng Shui For Love?

By Charles Chang

Has your romantic life been on the blink lately? Perhaps you?ve recently had a relationship that?s gone sour. You may think it is you, or perhaps you blame it on your ex. But maybe it isn?t you, it?s those dried flowers you have prominently displayed in your hallway, or the full length mirror in your bedroom. Feng Shui has applications for the home, office, and yes, even your love life.

Feng Shui (pronounced fung schway) is, in simple terms, the ancient Chinese Art and Science of placing things in our immediate environment in such a way as to improve our health, balance, security, and prosperity. It has been a carefully guarded secret for most of the last 3000 years. Now, anyone can enjoy the benefits of Feng Shui in their own lives.

There are several systems which are used to determine how to arrange your home to enhance your love life. The one that applies the most for our purposes is the Pa Kua system. In Pa Kua, the southwest corner is the love and romance sector of the home.

The first thing you?ll need to do is break out your compass and determine which corner of your home is the southwest corner. If there is a bedroom there, that is great. If there is a bathroom there, not so good. That will keep your romantic interests flushing away as fast as they arrive.

Now look more closely at that southwest corner. Is it badly lit and full of clutter? That means your love-live will suffer the same fate. Think of the southwest corner of your home as a reflection of what you want your romantic life to be. By ridding it of clutter and adding the proper d?cor, you can rejuvenate your chances of attracting just the right special someone for you.

You?ll also want to look in the southwest corner of your bedroom. Try putting a vase with beautiful fresh flowers in it. Many Feng Shui masters suggest a painting of a beautiful flower, and not something prickly, in the southwest corner. The Chinese do not like dried or dead flowers. Always keep some sort of fresh flower there instead.

Also good for your romantic endeavors is a pair of wooden ducks or a painting of two ducks. Ducks mate for life so these are very good symbols for your own romance. If you don?t like how the ducks look, you can simply put two rubber ducks there.

Mirrors on the ceiling and walls, especially full length mirrors, are definitely not good. These big mirrors symbolize portals that the energy from an uninvited third party can enter.

For those of you who dislike Chinese d?cor, the best westernized version is the classic lava lamp. Pink or Yellow goo flowing up and down in your romance sector is sure to create good energy flow. You can also use pictures or statues of loving couples.

For a final touch consider painting the walls adjacent to the southwest corner bright red to symbolize passion. Be careful not to go overboard, but put some of these Feng Shui tips into practice for your own love life and get ready to see what happens.

About the Author: Charles Chang is a Feng Shui enthusiast and author. He enjoys helping others with feng shui tips through his articles and website. Visit http://www.feng-shui-pro.com for more information.

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Care And Maintenance Of A Loving Wife

By Tracy Togliatti

Research shows that married men have an increased life expectancy. You deserve to have those extra years of life with your wife to be the best. This article is about manifesting the best for both of you.

First we want to look at you. You have everything to do with what kind of wife you are going to be enjoying your life with. Take a look at all areas of your life, mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical. Where are you at in your balance of taking care of yourself in all of these areas? Make an inventory and see what you can do to make sure every aspect of your life is healthy and strong. Be the best husband and all around person you can be to help your wife become the best she can be too.

Look at ways you can encourage your wife to make it a top priority that she takes very good care of herself. Share information with her on what you do for yourself, and give her gifts of items that will help her with her own personal care efforts. Books on meditation, bath/spa items, massage, Reiki treatments, these are all great ideas that will help her feel her best. The better she feels, the better she will be able to offer to you.

Lets compare taking good care of your wife to your yard if you have one. When you water the grass, use fertilizer, weed killer, mow it on a timely basis, you will have a lush green beautiful yard that is a pleasure to spend time in. If you don?t care for it, what is it? It becomes just a yard, maybe with patches of weeds or spots where nothing is growing at all, just a brown, bare, spots. Not so pleasurable is it? It might even become an embarrassment for you. It?s all a case of getting what you paid for in the amount of effort you are willing to put forth.

This is the same in caring for your wife. It stands to reason, if you take good care of her, she will be a pleasure to you. Women need nurturing to be able to open up and nurture back properly. They need to trust you and know that you are there for them, not just as a figurehead of the family, but also as an active person within their day-to-day lives.

Marital sex nurtures every part of your being. A healthy sex life improves your marriage and your health! Helping your wife open up to her sexual side can be very beneficial for both of you, not to mention lots of fun! Talk with you wife about her fantasies if she?ll share them with you, and then do your best to make them all come true.

If your wife isn?t ?in the mood? as much as either one of you might like, try to find out why and work to correct that with her. Perhaps her body is changing from getting older, or from children and she doesn?t feel as attractive as she used to be. Give her reassurance that you find her beautiful and encourage her to do things for herself to help her feel sexy. Be very careful to not criticize her for her appearance. Women are very hard on themselves in this area and any criticism from you will leave her feeling even less attractive. She definitely won?t feel like opening her body up to you for further scrutiny. Encourage her in positive ways for whatever she might be working on with her body and compliment her for efforts she does make, even the smallest of them.

Perhaps she?s just very busy and gets too tired! If you have kids, get a babysitter once a week to have a relaxing evening with each other, even if it?s just for a couple of hours. Take that time to just relax and remember each other without the children. Give her massages, nice baths, have the highest of reverence for her body; she will pay much more attention to yours in return.

If your wife works, pitch in with the domestic responsibilities. If you can afford it, have someone come in once a week for a few hours to help with the heavier cleaning and laundry. You might even know a high school student that would be willing to do this for a more modest cost. Saving your wife time and energy will help her have more time and energy to spend with you.

Make communicating a priority. Listen deeply to your wife, it honors her to feel understood and that you are interested in what she has to say. Simply listening without giving advice is usually best. Wait until she specifically asked for your suggestions so she doesn?t feel like you are trying to tell her what to do. Or, ask her first if she would like your advice. If she says no, then save it for some other time when she might be more receptive. Be clear on letting her know what you need and want from her too. Do it with kindness and patience and without putting blame on her if things are less than wonderful.

Make sure and appreciate the efforts your wife makes and tell her often. Let her know by simply telling her, or send her a special note or email. Give her little gifts when you can. Even if it?s a wildflower you pick outside and bring in, it?s the little things that count too! It?s important to feel needed and appreciated and your wife will learn to pay attention to more that you are doing so she can give appreciation to you too.

Make sure and really look at her too when you are communicating things with her. This shows her that she is worth your time and attentions. This will mean a lot to her.

Give your wife the benefit of a full loving experience. Let her see love by the things you do and how you take time to spend with her. Let her feel love by being affectionate, not just during romantic times. Let her hear love by telling her what she means to you. Then make sure you are open to receiving all of the ways she can show love to you.

I hope these ideas help you create a beautiful marriage for yourself and your wife. If you would like more ideas, or have a specific situation you would like more insight on, please email me at anytime. Remember, if you want to be the Esteemed King of the Castle; your wife is most assuredly your Queen! Treat her like one and watch to see the benefits you will gain!

About the Author: Tracy Togliatti is a Registered Reiki Master through the Global Reiki Association, and Energy Psychology Practitioner. Tracy is also acting Director of http://www.happyher.com, where she offers a Free Advice service and free email Reiki lessons. You may contact her anytime here http://www.happyher.com/advice/contact.shtml

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