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April 21, 2008

What better excuse for breaking out the Mexican food and Margaritas than Cinco de Mayo? Most people mistakenly assume the 5th of May is Mexico's Independence Day - their equivalent of our 4th of July. Actually, the day is celebrated because of a major battle the loyal Mexican army fought (with American assistance) against some disloyal Mexican troops and...the French. Who knew?

In any case, it's a day to celebrate freedom and loyalty and here are some ideas for a terrific Cinco de Mayo fiesta!

Setting: Mexico is a beautiful country, filled with vibrant colors and friendly people who are loyal to friends and family. So, for your Cinco de Mayo fiesta, why not create a family-friendly setting so that a variety of ages can join in on the fun. If the weather in your area allows for an outdoor party, all the better. Lots of potted plants with colorful flowers, a table covered with reds, oranges, blues and vibrant greens will add to the atmosphere. Add dishes with colorful and intricate patterns. Cinco de Mayo is a day when restraint and neutrals just don't make the cut.

If your party will be going from afternoon into evening, make sure you have plenty of candles and lanterns. For inexpensive, but effective mood setting, simply use small jars with votive candles, wrapped with wire and hung from trees.

Music always adds to the atmosphere and we recommend some sassy salsa. You may find some new artists and styles of music that you'll want to add to your list of favorites.

Attire: It's a fiesta, so encourage your guests to wear festive, but comfortable clothes. Bright sundresses and sandals for the ladies and open-necked shirts and chinos for the men are perfect. Ladies, this is no time to show restraint with your jewelry. The more bangles, the better!

Activities: One activity the kids will love is to have a piñata, filled with candies and small toys. You can buy one at many party stores or in the Latin American neighborhood in your community. For the adults, a Tequila tasting session would be fun. Many associate Tequila only as a rough liquor to be slammed down at spring break, but there are many quality Tequilas. Approach the tasting just as you would scotch or wine tasting.

Food: Ah, our favorite part of any Cinco de Mayo fiesta. You can go simple yet tasty, with salsa, chips, guacamole, and a do-it-yourself taco and burrito bar, or stretch your culinary efforts to include some other traditional Mexican recipes. Be sure to offer plenty of cold bottled water, sodas and one or two varieties of Mexican beer. Dos Equis and Corona are always popular and are fun to serve along with shakers of salt and wedges of lime.

Over-the-top Ideas: The best idea we can think of for a large gathering is to hire a mariachi band. Their music is beautiful and they will definitely lend an air of authenticity to your gathering.

Another idea is to hire one or two dance instructors to provide some quick lessons to get the party started. An hour or two of dancing will eliminate any guilt over the rich Mexican food.

Whatever you do, remember that Cinco de Mayo is a wonderful day to celebrate feeling free and having a wonderful time. Ole!

Nancy Magsig is Co-Founder and COO of Here's To Good Women, Inc. The website, http://www.HeresToGoodWomen.com is dedicated to providing inspiration, ideas and gifts to help women celebrate every day.

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December 16, 2007

The Day Care Dilemma - How Do I Choose?
By Karen Fusco

Years ago, simply asking a friend or neighborhood teen to babysit for you was as easy as picking up the phone. Or you might have found an advertisement in the local newspaper. But with day care centers and providers springing up like daisies, the choices today are far and wide.

Don't worry! Finding the right day care provider need not be an insurmountable task. References from friends are still a great way to locate a reputable center. Local newspaper classifieds will have ads run by small family-type childcare providers. The internet provides access to informative websites posted by larger entrepreneurial day care providers which will have information on their qualifications, licensing, pricing, etc. Your local chapter of CCR&R (Child Care Resource and Referral) is a free service that provides guidance by phone, in person and on the internet to assist you in locating a childcare provider, based on your zip code.

Once you determine what type of day care you need - in-home, drop-in, part time or full time - there are several guidelines to follow. We all know that a picture is worth a thousand words, and in this case, a visit to the prospective center is highly recommended. If possible, make it a surprise visit. You'll see how they treat the children, how discipline and cleanliness issues are handled and how crowded the various areas are. Even a short visit will give you a sense of how the center is run.

In addition to visiting the facility (or while you're there), obtain references and find the answer to as many of these questions as possible.

Qualifications:

Is the facility licensed? Is it up to date? Are the Director and teachers qualified to run a day care facility? Do they have bachelor's degrees in a child related field? Have the teachers worked in child care for at least one year? Has the Director worked in child care for at least two years? What level of training or experience do the aides have? Does the staff show a genuine love for children or is this just a job?

Supervision:

Does the provider or center have enough supervision? Are the children supervised even when they are sleeping? How many caregivers are there at all times? Have the caregivers had background checks? Is there a high turnover of teachers and/or aides? What is your standard method of discipline? What do you do if the discipline doesn't get the desired result?

Schedules:

Is there a daily schedule of activities? Are there structured activities as well as play time? Is there scheduled nap time or quiet time for those who don't sleep? How often are children taken to the bathroom? What kind of foods and snacks are offered?

Inside Facilities:

Are the tables and chairs generally clean and not sticky? Is there a bathroom available for older children to use to wash their hands after toileting and before meals? Are the diapering areas clean and the diapers disposed of in a proper manner? Are the children up to date on their immunizations and are these records available? Are toxic materials locked away and poison information posted? Are medications kept safely out of reach of the children?

Outside Facilities:

Are the playgrounds and play areas kept clean and in good repair? Is the sandbox clean? Is the playground surrounded by a fence? Are the toys age-appropriate?

Emergencies:

Is there an emergency plan in place if a child gets hurt or lost? Is there a first aid kit on the premises? Does the staff know CPR and first aid? Do they practice fire drills? Is there a program in place for disasters such as earthquake and/or tornado?

This list may seem excessive at first, but a visit to the day care center or family home will tell you a lot about the surroundings, and the answers you get to your questions will tell you whether this is the place for your child. Follow your instincts! A concerned parent must take care to ensure the safety and well being of her child, even if it means asking some uncomfortable questions of the day care provider.

Karen Fusco is the co-author of "Busy Moms: The Heart and Soul of a Home", an ebook filled with time-saving and stress-reducing tips and ideas to help build a stronger home, a stronger family and a stronger you. Karen can be reached at karen@busymombook.com.

Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Karen_Fusco
http://EzineArticles.com/?The-Day-Care-Dilemma---How-Do-I-Choose?&id=880430

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