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February 03, 2008
When a woman is drawn towards a man, it is the consequence of the man showing her that he has high-quality genes.

A woman wants to bear superior offspring, biologically speaking. Therefore, her main decisive factor when picking a mate is if the man has exhibited alpha male traits (superior genes). Obviously, women don't deliberately make this choice. It is a result of hundreds of thousands of years of evolution.

Human beings are animals. Highly developed animals, but animals nevertheless. When a woman is attracted to a man, her thoughts are not "He has superior genes so I want to mate with him so I can have superior offspring".

More precisely, her thoughts are more than likely "He is a handsome man. I really like him. He makes me feel special". Her emotions tell her this, not her conscious mind.

The courting of a woman is a four part progression and the following lists the sequence. The four steps are:

1. The man demonstrates alpha male qualities and puts in the woman's field of view.

2. The man gets signals from the woman that she is interested in him

3. If the man is interested in the woman, he then moves toward her.

4. The man tactfully gives the woman an opportunity to be alone with him.

sb
February 03, 2008
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February 03, 2008
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February 03, 2008
MEN ARE AWESOME!!!

I always want to be chased by a man, makes a woman feel special and strokes our ego's. He can make a great friend but then he can also make for a wonderful partner and lover, who will always ignite our fires that will burn for the remainder of our lives, yes they may flicker for a while and then he may say or do something and "WOW", our flames are burning out of control again... Ladies I don't know about you but without men to charm us, play with us, smile at us, hold us and make us feel all that intense attraction, I wouldn't want to be on planet earth without them. Men are awesome creatures, can be very witty, then without any warning he will all of a sudden become that little boy that is so attractive, he becomes so cute. Look for his qualities and concentrate on them , allow him to flirt and play with you, most of all enjoy giving it back, you will reap the benefits trust me he will love you forever....

Remember to always have Fun with him, he lives to please a woman who admires him and trusts him.....

 

 

sb
January 17, 2008

Some call this Senior Dating, Black Dating or over the hill dating in Baltimore.

I call it hysterical! As the owner of two online dating websites (one for Black Singles and one for Senior Singles) AND a black dating service (I give dating events) you would think I could at least find some datable men. YOU would be wrong!

It had been almost two years since my husband's death before I even considered "dating" again. The gentleman was really nice, could hold a conversation but was not really my type. Now mind you, my type has been all over the place so I don't have a type per se. However, he was not "it."

That indefinable "it" that lets you know up front just how far to take this thing. So, for me, right now I am taking everything very slowly. Being a widow does have its advantage. One of the advantages is it will buy me time. So even when I KNOW this is going absolutely no where, most men have the common sense and tact not to rush or push me. Great for me. With the slim pickings here in Baltimore, slow is the only way to go. I have been just friends with a man only to find out six months down the road that I really REALLY like this guy. So my method is to take my time, feel the gentleman out and let things unfold as they may. But fellas Please help a sister out!

While I will admit I have been a little spoiled (my husband dressed his self and me very well and was always slim), I am not yet ready to deal with massive beer bellies, nose or heaven forbid ear hairs! Nor am I willing to be seen in public with some one who has on plaids with prints (wtf) or squeaky leather shoes, let alone sandals with crusty feet. What is going ON?

OK so, Yes, I do judge all my friends on their character, ability to hold a great conversation (not the one sided conversation where he talks and I yawn), along with a good sense of humor.

A women's erogenous zone has always been between her ears, most women don't realize that until their innate "hotness" has worn off. AND the man of their choice now is sporting one of those beer bellies. To take me to dinner a few times does not constitute an invitation to spend the night (What? You want to stay here?) I need just a little more than that. I can assist with the dressing as needed, but please get rid of those PLAIDS AND PRINTS! A man who can talk and listen is what I am seeking. A great sense of humor and adventure are always a plus. These are truly the golden years. I can do this alone, but would rather be with YOU!

If this is you, hit me on my website. Ladies, happy hunting and good luck to you!

sb
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