The Big Change

A recent discussion I had with a friend involved her wondering why her boyfriend seemed to resent her going to school. Mary and Lars have been dating for 5 years, in those five years she has been suffering from depression. They both have a very comfortable relationship with little change from year to year. Many times Mary was unable to leave the house for weeks at a time due to her depression. Lars also battled many personal problems.  After receiving spiritual guidance Mary has made unbelievable progress. She even takes some mild medication for her depression and she is doing better than I can ever remember seeing her. So what is the problem in her relationship? Well Lars who is a great guy and very supportive of her has basically built much of his life around taking care of Mary. Now that Mary is doing so well Lars doesn’t feel as needed. 

 He will never admit this but I know them both and I know that this is true. Lars says that Mary has become stuck up and arrogant because she is a taking 2 classes and also received a paid scholarship for more education. Mary insists she is as humble as ever but Lars says she is wrong. So, who is right? Well the answer is that both are right. Lars noticed about Mary when we met with her was her amazing confidence. This is what Lars is mistaking for arrogance. Mary use to speak with her head down when we rode a public Bus, she is a pretty girl but always denied this. When I saw her last week we rode the bus together and she was confident speaking in a big crowd. She was very unaware of all the confidence she was projecting. I could not believe this was the same person (The Universe (God) is Loving). There is an expanding energy of source that is always willing to help us and it is beyond what our brains can understand. A person like Lars had become comfortable with a very docile and timid Mary but this is not why the Universe (God) thought Mary into being.

Mary is a creation that must expand. We all are created for expansion. Expansion will often cause an uncomfortable stretch that can cause others to wonder what is happening to you. Their brains have already fashioned you one way and changes cause the brain to react in a new way and must adjust to the change. It is the brain that makes us creatures of habit NOT the soul or the heart. Lars will adjust to the “New” Mary it will take time but he will accept the change. There are issues of jealousy and envy that can affect couples as one starts to expand. We will explore these issues deeper in our Ebook. “How to attract anyone you want”. This book is more than a dating book it will help you as a person, we have received many requests for this book and it is well on the way. 

When source moves you will be moved indeed. It has nothing to do with willpower or mind power. This is what happened with Mary when we aligned her with “Source” she was given wings to fly. This is not a temporary change but a different person will emerge when you are aligned correctly with Source.

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Comment by linsayhi Nov. 30,2007 omg too yea big!! :) Cheers+