Dating gets harder after 25...here's why!

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Why is it harder to meet a mate, as I became an adult?

People often say to me that it got a lot more difficult to meet a mate, as they got older. And when I say older I mean 25 and older usually. What happened after High School or college is a common question that I am asked. Well, the question should be what happened to YOU. You were not prepared for what was waiting for you after you left school. College is a time of openness that allows some of the best hearts and souls of students. They are the many open-heart dreamers who feel that anything is possible. They are right but their dream is soon to expire. These like-minded people have a very easy time connecting in their youth. It is a time of exploration and possibility. At times like these the possibilities seem endless and the world is their oyster.

So what happens that changes all of this. Well, what is waiting there is a structure that is in place known as “The real world”. Spiritually it is not the real “Real world” but the thoughts of those college students and other “Dreamers” will be crushed in a very short time by a system that subconsciously will do this. These are some of the problems that are plaguing the dating world today. The structure is one of limitations not expansion. You must learn how to expand. This is something that is very difficult to learn unless someone teaches you. The issue is much too long to go into a blog but we will touch on it. You are living in a world where there have been put on you many limitations that will affect your dating life. Is it any wonder that there are so many dating services out today? There are so many dating services that it is almost a joke. The problem is not the dating service. I do feel that everyone should try a dating service at least once. The problem is most people have not been taught how to win at dating. Signing up for a dating service may be good but for most people it is like a man arriving on a first date with no clothes on to meet a woman. It will probably be the last time you see that person.

You were not prepared and this is why a dating service will not help most. This is why we created this blog, it is to help people show up prepared when you meet the right person. Our self-help Ebook “How to attract anyone you want” will help you win at dating and improve your life.

But how can you win at dating when you live in a world structure that actually creates misunderstanding between men and women. After you leave school you will be indoctrinated into a world that will actually help create your brain to think along the lines “They” want. You and your potential mate will stare at each other across the room and nothing will ever grow out this chance encounter. It will be another missed opportunity. It is not your fault. It is the structure that we live in. So yes it is different meeting a potential mate than when you were younger.

Can these limiting structures be broken? Yes they can but you must get at the root cause. Many do not realize it but the media is one of the largest influencers on your dating life. Yes, It is true; the media has consciously and unconsciously affect your change to get a mate. We are an over stimulated, over saturated, over informed people. You have been trained to think in ways that will stop your growth and the ability to meeting new people. If you think this is not a problem why is online dating sites a BILLION dollar business. Good people will always have to go back to the dating sites because the have been structurally conditioned in a limiting way, much will not come of your dating membership until you are aligned with Source. Welcome to the so-called real world.